First time bird owner Lutino IRN

So I bought my husband an IRN for his birthday well our birthdays and I feel like we're doing everything wrong. The breeder let them fly everywhere and although her wings are clipped only leaving the outside 2 flight feathers she still gets quite the lift but she only seems to fly when spooked or done hanging out with us, and she heads straight back to her perch. We also did a small sink shower due to she seemed quite dirty. Then the rest of the day I felt as if I had traumatized her. The bluffing seems mild, she steps up when asked and will occasionally give cheek kisses if asked, but she doesn't not want to be petted. Is this normal IRN behavior, are we on the way to bonding with our new feathery friend? Any suggestions or tips? Thank you.


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